What is your definition of a good man?

​Do good men really exist, What does it mean to be a good man, who is a good man, how do you find a good man, how do you know a good man, what qualities must a good man have? 

These question pops up so many times in the heart of people who are in a relationship or about to enter one. So we’ll take it step by step. But Just know that Good men do exist and you can find one for yourself.

“Every good Woman deserves a good Man and every Man needs to know how to be a good man to his woman”.  Some often wonder whether they are with the right person especially when the relationship is getting more serious “by the day”. They want to know if there will be a future in the relationship someday. Every woman prays and hopes to meet a good man that would make a good husband. A man that would take care of her and cater for her needs. 

A woman is in the best position to say who a good man is or what do you think? Women are the ones in need of a good man. But these days it is so damn hard to see a good man, what we see most times is a man acting to be good, and it is so disappointing when the whole charade opens to you. You must have heard or have said things like: “Good men are hard to find, some women even say; “All men are terrible”, and some even say; they never want to get married. One way or the other, these statements shows that a woman might have had some heartbreaking experiences with men or might have seen others go through some hard issues with men. This brings us back to the questions in the first paragraph of this post.

Who is a good man?

Www.dictionary.com defined a good as the master of a household; a husband.

Click here: https://beingmissmane.wordpress.com/2016/10/27/how-do-i-know-if-this-person-is-right-for-me/ to see if your patner is right for you.

We can’t give a total definition to what qualities a good man must possess, because we all defer and so also our preferences. So when picking a good mate, someone cannot give you a total advice too, what you seek in a mate is far different from what someone else wants. It’s good to ask for advice when seeking a mate but it’s now left for you to discern which one works well.

 My definition of a good man might be different from that of a thousand people out there. But here’s a list of what some women say they want in a man:

Some say; “A good man is humble,caring, respectful, loyal and faithful, gentle, tender and god-fearing”.

 Others say: They want someone who is responsible, financially okay, caring, mildtempered, understanding, calm and also god-fearing. 

Some even say: “A good man understands his woman”, and so on. If you ask a lot of women; they all will have different or common things they want from a man. So many people have so many things to say when you ask them; even men have something to say.

Sometimes men say women are never satisfied, they cannot be pleased. Is that true? Sometimes I think the internet confuses us. Everyone has their opinion about something, forgetting that what works for A might not  work for B, for instance if My man Cooks for me, washes for me and cares deeply for me, would do a great deal to please me, he would get jealous when he sees a message from someone we both know likes me and also  would get furious when I get angry at every little issue that comes my way. He has never bought me flowers, does not kiss me in public but would I say because of those little things he doesn’t do he his not a good man? Well, I think he his more than a good man, he his even great. Now your man could do something else for you or even something better, and some men have other ways of showing love for their Woman. It’s now left to you to appreciate his efforts and not compare him with your neighbor that does better or your friend’s patner that you think does better.

When searching for that special someone it is good to have an image of what he should be like, but do not an exaggerated one.
Whichever way it works for you, appreciate the good man in your life;

1. Treat him well, and let him treat you better.

2. Men,  please love and respect every woman, not just your woman. Women, respect would go a long way in keeping your man.

Most importantly women,  appreciate your Man’s efforts. That way a relationship can work well. 

But I would also love to hear more from all women out there; what do you want from a man, what is your definition of a good man? 

Maybe men out there would stop saying we are complicated 😂 and see what they might not be doing right.

I am also looking forward to writing a post on what Men wants from women too, maybe when I’m done with this series Or what do you think? 

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